SNAEHA SATHYAN

Image taken from Google Images They mute their hearing to any kind of concerns Because I'm an unruly child ; They never let me do anything, if in case they did never can I escape from their inventions of flaws developed without any law Because I'm an unruly child ; They are unpredictable max that they themselves do not when they will act in a certain way Because I'm an unruly child ; I neither can do anything nor go anywhere even if it's necessary  Because I'm an unruly child ; They will be bored and make my own life boring and dominate it so badly and ruin it totally Because I'm an unruly child ; I can't have my own styles in dressing or grooming Because I'm an unruly child ; I can't choose a hobby or a profession or a person to talk or be with  Because I'm an unruly child ; I cannot even have my own passions / dreams come true, not even be let to work for it Because I'm an unruly child ; I will be surveilled 24/7 even if I keep staring at t...

This is a 3-5 minute read on my life's tiny confession from which a better tip can be retained for the well-being and a harmonious life. Ever questioned yourself that whether are you really a perfectionist or not and wondered what might be an actual definition of a "PERFECTIONIST"? Can you believe that there are various levels of being a perfectionist? Do you even get satisfied if someone praises you saying that you're a Super Star in your field or do you get some insecurities and procure some self-doubts with it? Will you believe me if I say that the so-called REAL PERFECTIONISTS are also sloppy at times? Competing without even knowing for what the competition is on is the most saddest part of the adulthood as well as the career, but unfortunately it has been running through over each generations. The excellency in your own field is really difficult to achieve when all of you know what has to be done, the slight variance in the place where you stand in your field occ...

This is a 2-4 minute read about an adult's life who gets stuck in the middle of nowhere and somehow plots back a path.  It feels like it's been long long ago so long ago because it is when since I wrote my last blog. Writing blogs for me have been my dearest and treasured pastime like how bakers bake cakes and it has also been a passion for me to write aright since my childhood. I wasn't much of a reader back then but started reading when I was an undergraduate and began to attempt to writing although I did not feel satisfied enough to post it anywhere or share it with my friends. My Professor and my beloved pal put the screws on me to write blogs, thanks to them. Alright, let's get back on the track.  I've been juggling with so many things at the same time and I never did feel the push in myself to write a blog. I've got very much raw and delicate indeed lately and also developed anxiety over every little decisions that I took in my life - maybe I am intuiting ...

" WITHOUT TEACHERS LIFE WOULD HAVE NO CLASS"  Education in general has different approaches to be dealt with and has to be manifold in order to provide the learners with vast and extensive insights. Our government has revamped the already existing education policy that was drafted about 34 years ago. The main aim of the newly released Education Policy 2020, in short NEP 2020 is to universalize education and make assured and complete enrollment of school education and provide quality knowledge with experiential, rational, analytical, empirical and critical thinking among the students. To me, I view this policy optimistically and it is merely a good foundation laid in terms of school education and is a mission that has to be facilitated appropriately. A change is always inevitable to bring about a progress that can be witnessed with the help of this policy. But there is still an on-going quest in everyone’s mind and that is – Will this be feasible and who are responsible to...

  Image taken from Google Images " YOU ARE EITHER ON MY SIDE OR YOU'RE IN MY WAY" We all associate ourselves with a particular group and also differentiate from another group. The associating group will include your liked ones and you might hold a different emotion with it and the other differentiating group (out-group) will also be seen with a different kind of emotion as the view towards it will not be one and the same with the in-group. The disparity within the groups might also fan the flames of conflicts between them. In simple terms, a group of people voting for one particular political party will hold on to each other and will be in good terms within themselves while those who are at odds with the ideology will be seen with hatred and ultimately an enmity position. Amity-enmity complex is a theory propounded by a sociologist Arthur Keith . He says that this complex ushers to a form of evolution in the society. No society remains static but is always in a dyna...

  Okay in the previous blog we came across different views or opinions on marriage in words by the married ones. In this blog, I’ve addressed those unmarried ones by asking them simply 3 questions that are as follows: 1.     What is your view on marriage and those who are married? 2.     When (at what age and stage) do you think is the right time to get married? 3.     Is it necessary to get married and what are the factors that you consider/ rely upon to get married i.e. on what basis do you wish to choose your partner, even in arranged marriage you do have options and preferences for a groom, right ? As usual, I’ve got a good number of fair and genuine responses from my lovely pals. Let’s see how they responded.   a.      Samiritha Srinivasan: “Nice topic” – How sweet of her to start off her response with this appreciation. Thank you sweets. 1.     Marriage is an institution where...

This blog is going to be slightly lengthy than the usual having two parts just like the depth of it's context.  Everybody will reach that stage in their lives to get tied up to a partner with a mutual contract that is said to be for an eternity and holds different kinds of orientations and reasons. Therefore, this concept of marriage possess varied definitions by sociologists, psychologists and others. It is considered to be the legal engagement to set about and lead a family. Few people apart from defining this concept also additionally delineate average age to get married and this also differs with each individual. There are even incidences where the concept of marriage is getting redefined.  Ever wondered why the trends in marriage contradicts with each generation? I've read somewhere that according to a study from Pew Pew research on millenials and the Silent Generation, it was found that millenials prefer to not get married as their grandparents did. The rates of child ma...

  Compromise is a small word with a great deal of depth in it. All our lives we have reached this stage we are already in by making a number of compromises with different situations and with different set of people. Compromise does not always mutually trade off two parties satisfactorily, it happens in order to avoid certain future disruptions and complications. Life has never given anything to anybody so easily what they wished for free of compromises and even if anybody have strived for getting what they want it has never left them at peace. The kind of emotion involved in this is terrible that it breaks you completely to not have what you desired for.   This is errant for all irrespective of the gender, but here I would like to address with only woman. A woman, especially is exacted and expected to unavoidably compromise in her life from things she really love so much. No matter what role she plays, she has to compromise something for somebody, as this society stipula...

I have not intended to troll either Lord Krishna or Vijay Sethupathy in my blog here. Read completely for clarity.   Hinduism has been the worldly religion and has its huge base in India that possesses worship of different Gods and gives freedom for polytheism. Ancient literatures, poems, stories, scriptures, historical sites, mythological evidences holds evidence for this religion. I do not aim to accentuate it’s age old history here. Of all the Gods worshipped in Hinduism, the most popular one is Lord Krishna. Lord Krishna is said to be born as the eighth son to his mother Devaki in a place called Brindhavan and is considered to be a noble scion of the illustrious Yadava dynasty. His birthday is celebrated as an occasion that emphasises his childhood and early youth and there are umpteen number of stories about him, the most popularised being the War of Kurukshetra that was between the Pandavas and Gauravas and has lengthy verses in Bhagavad Gita. The information mentio...

Image taken from Google Images Pluto was feeling cranky and was crying loudly while I was packing things along with my husband Ryan. I immediately ceased and went to attend Pluto and wrapped him around my arms and walked straight towards my eleven year old son Nilan’s room. On the way to his room, Nilan was sitting all dressed up as early in the hall eagerly to emplane to his granny’s place. I felt contented to see Nilan being quick witted and a responsible boy to pack his own things and wait for us patiently. Ryan with a big smile on his face came out of the room and said, “Tada! It’s time for us to leave”. I concernedly asked if he had checked everything before leaving home for which he hugged me ardently and told me that everything’s done and so there’s no need to worry while we just need to think about reaching the place where I was born. I blushed looking at him and then left home. In the morning, we received a warm welcome by my mother who was standing near the door with happ...